We all know the solution. How about we start doing something about it right now? How can I feel empowered and confident, regardless of other peoples moods and opinions? I’ve been studying conversational skills for five years now and I’m in the process of writing the first book on the…

The creative circle you didn’t see coming. I know I’m not the best writer. Where I shine, is enthusiasm, hope and a keep-moving-forward-attitude. But, I’ve noticed, the more I PUBLISH my writing, the better my writing gets. The funny thing is and it really is, haha-funny; the more consistent I…

Five ways to stay focused when everything wants your attention. With a philosophical nugget from Kant. Why do we get so easily distracted? Ideas seem to be like shiny new nuggets. Ideas of how to become more productive, more focused (like this post), more confident, more healthy and the list…

Visually, I’m every nazis wet dream. Blond, pale skinned and blue-eyed. Still, the people who inspire me are often not. I wonder, since humanity started in Africa, do some of us recognise something so beautiful in you, something that calls us home? I’m about to start studying Social Anthropology and…

How sleezeballs are made and if you’re one, this is how you get out of the loop. I mean, who were their ideals growing up? I’ve seen it too many times. The funny thing is that women think we’re excluded from the label. Even if the male community is the…

If you have something nice to say, for the love of humanity, share it! Yes, there are assholes out there who serve compliments with a side of slime that makes the whole experience nauseating. We’re not focusing on them here. So, the default expression is: If you don’t have something…

Thank you for being you …when you have a querk. You’re like a treat I stumble upon and will cherish for days. …when I’m writing on my computer at the cafe you’re in and I’m looking for words. …when I find you beautiful; regardless of your gender expression or identity…

What I learned in a squabble over my vanilla/chocolate muffins after a photoshoot. “Seagulls, as you know, never falter, never stall. To stall in the air is for them disgrace and it is dishonor. But Jonathan Livingston Seagull, unashamed, stretching his wings again in the trembling hard curve–slowing, slowing, and…

The walrus that was put to sleep because people wouldn’t stay away. You’ve probably read about Freya and how Norway found it necessary to put her down to protect the audience. Let’s talk about these humans, the audience, for a bit. Through repeated media encouragements for months on end, near…